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Managing Your Child's Dental Anxiety

Managing Your Child's Dental Anxiety

Tips to Manage Your Child's Dental Anxiety

Dental anxiety is prevalent among young children and, in many cases, can stem from an adult's own dental fears (whether you recognize them or not). If left unmanaged, going to the dentist can become an unpleasant ordeal for children. Luckily, it doesn't have to be that way!

As a parent, you can take steps to manage your children's dental anxiety before it interferes with oral health. This will help ensure they have a beautiful, healthy foundation for their smiles from childhood to their teenage years and beyond.

1. Offer a Simple Explanation of What to Expect

Start by telling children when they'll be visiting the dentist and what it will be like. After all, just the look of a dental office and meeting a stranger can be frightening. By giving children basic information about what to expect during their visit, you can put their minds at ease and make them feel more comfortable.

2. "Practice" for a Dental Visit

Familiarity breeds comfort and this certainly applies to children and the dentist! For some children, dental anxiety is the result of not knowing what will happen at the office.

A great way to overcome this is to pretend play a dental visit. Have children sit in the "chair," count their teeth, and hold up a mirror to show them how a dentist might examine their mouths. You can even encourage children to brush their dolls' or stuffed animals' teeth to get more accustomed to the dental routine. There are even some books you can read about going to the dentist.

3. Explain Good Oral Hygiene

Kids don't always understand why checkups are good for them, but they do understand tangible outcomes. For example, telling children they're getting strong because they eat their veggies is better than trying to explain vitamins and minerals they won't understand.

The same goes for dental visits. Be sure children understand that visiting the dentist will make their teeth strong and keep their smile looking great. These things can motivate them to want to go to the dentist (or tolerate it at the very least)!

4. Keep it About Your Child

It can be tempting to use your own dental experiences to put your children at ease, but you shouldn't. You may have some dental anxiety that you don't realize and could inadvertently convey this to your children.

Keep all of the attention focused on your children. Doing so will give them the confidence they need and reduce the likelihood of feeling anxious over their upcoming dental appointment.

5. Start Dental Visits Young and Start Them Right

The American Association of Pediatric Dentistry recommends that the first dental visit should occur within six months after the baby’s first tooth appears and no later than one year old. At this young age, the dentist or hygienist can answer any dental questions you have and show you how to take care of your child’s teeth. Toddlers can watch their parents or older siblings get their teeth cleaned and have a “happy visit” where they are shown the dental equipment and get a special prize.

By starting visits young and starting them off right, you can create a positive early association with the dentist and avoid the screaming and crying matches that many parents accept as inevitable.


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